The Chalice Model
This describes a model of support. The top half of the chalice represents the client and what they bring to each session. The bottom half of the chalice represents the counsellor, and the stem of the chalice represents the skills the counsellor uses to support the client.
Presenting Problems
This highlights the fact that during the first session a client may offer a ‘presenting problem’, and not the real issue they would like to discuss. At the end of the session the client may feel comfortable enough to explain the real issue, possibly in a way to try and shock the counsellor. A negative reaction from the counsellor may drive away the client, where as a positive reaction may encourage the client to return for future sessions.
Blind Spots
The rule associated with ‘challenging’ is only attempt to do so when it is safe. It is especially important not to ask “why…?” at any time because the client could misinterpret this as criticism.
A ‘blind spot’ therefore should also be addressed with caution. A blind spot is an area that the client may be hiding , or is in fact not aware of themselves. If the counsellor addresses this without care it could lead to the client being very self critical.
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