When a man becomes delusional that his partner is being unfaithful it is referred to as ‘Othello Syndrome’. This intense jealousy can affect any man at any time, and does not require previous psychiatric history.
What is jealousy? It involves three parties – the subject, the object of their desire/affection and a third party who threatens the security of the relationship. This shouldn’t be confused with envy which involves only two parties – the subject and the object/possession they covet.
In relationships a little jealousy can be viewed as healthy. It shows the continued value placed on the relationship. However, delusional jealousy can be destructive and used to gain power.
How does it affect you? When you are jealous you may compare yourself with your rival, question your own self image and feel self pity. You may also feel a number of negative emotions, become aggressive or require constant reassurance from your partner.
If you are in doubt as to the severity of your jealous feelings you may want to speak to your GP or a counsellor.
What are your own experiences with jealousy? What impact did/does it have on your relationship?
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